Living away from loved ones

For many Muslims around the world, Eid celebrations this weekend will be a time to stay at home with loved ones, celebrate their faith and reflect on the holy month of Ramadan as it comes to a close for another year.
For Hajrah Mukhtar, 26, a dietitian at Kent Community Health NHS Foundation Trust, Eid is going to be a different experience to previous years.

This is because Hajrah has been living in temporary accommodation in Ashford, to protect her family, including elderly grandparents at home, while she continues to work and support patients at the William Harvey Hospital in Ashford.

Hajrah said: “Ramadan has been difficult this month, the temperamental weather and the heat has been hard, along with when I have been on the COVID-19 positive wards wearing my personal protective equipment (PPE); but as the month has gone on, I’ve got more used to it and now I will be quite sad it’s over.”

Ramadan is the holy month in the Islamic calendar, where Muslims fast between sunrise and sundown, pray regularly every day, spend time with family and take part in charitable work.

Hajrah has been living away from her family since the beginning of April, first staying in the Premier Inn in Ashford, being moved into a cottage on her own in Challock.

She said: “Ramadan has been strange this year, not being able to see my family every day, or visit the mosque to pray and break my fast in the evenings. The food is always so good, I miss it”

“My colleague, Lauren Diamond, fasted with me during the first week. I really appreciated the support from her, as being away from my family – I miss the support of seeing them every day during Ramadan and being able to talk about it.”

“I have been video calling with my family every day, we even held some virtual iftars on a few evenings, with my family eating in their garden on camera while I was at the cottage.

“That was really nice, as living on my own, doing my prayers and breaking my fast has been really strange, not being with my family.”

This weekend is Eid, a celebration marking the end of Ramadan, and is a time for reflection, celebration and spending time with the whole family.

Hajrah said: “Eid is one of the biggest celebrations of the year for my family; usually all of the family meet up at my grandad’s house and celebrate together, but this weekend I will be going home and spending time in the garden with my close family – social distancing of course.

“As different Ramadan has been for me this year, it has really made me appreciate what I have and has given me time to reflect and ground myself and my beliefs.’’

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